Sunday, April 6, 2014

Letter to Charlotte: Month thirteen

Dear Charlotte,

I feel like the last month has flown by even faster than your first year, you’ve changed so much and are growing so fast!  Over the last month you weaned yourself from nursing, are now drinking whole milk from a sippy cup and eating real food (no more purees), and just yesterday you took your first steps.  Where did the infant that smashed her cupcake into her face go?  Because the little baby I remember has been replaced with a full-fledged toddler.

Because of the timing, your birthday party took place a few days after your actual birthday, which meant we were able to celebrate for several days, and you loved all of the attention.  You had so much fun seeing all of your immediate family, loved when we sang to you, loved opening presents (you might have loved the wrapping and tissue paper the most!), and loved being the center of attention.  You’re such a sweet and even-tempered girl, and although you have your Mommy-moments, you loved having such a big group around to celebrate you!




You’re weaned now and although I miss the extra-special bond that came with nursing, we were ready, and not rushed, when it ended.  I waited until after your birthday party and we slowly started trying different sippy cups; it took a few to figure out which one you liked the best and then it took about a week to get you used to the taste and temperature of whole milk.  We supplemented with whole milk smoothies that you still like to drink, but you did amazingly well.  I came down with a nasty cold a few days after your birthday party and that actually helped me finalize the weaning process.  We dropped your morning session first and that was easy because it was replaced with  breakfast in your high chair with me and Anna, and the night time session was the last to go.  I will always remember the first day I rocked you to sleep without nursing you.  I cried a little, but it was happy tears.  We’d made it!  I still rock you to sleep most nights and I will do that for as long as you’ll let me, it’s our special time and you’re my special girl.



You continue to be a rock star eater and we can always tell when you’re not feeling well or overly tired by the amount of food left on your plate.  You’re pretty open to most foods, but especially love fruit.  We shop over the weekend for our weekly meals, but it never fails that we have to make a return trip by Thursday to stock up on more produce.  You’re getting great at using those pincher fingers to pick up your food and will be ready to start practicing with a spoon pretty soon.  You’re great at telling us “all done” in sign language at the end of the meal, but are still working on the sign for “more” … you currently just yell at us to indicate that you’re still hungry and would like a second serving. 


You love to wave say “hi” and wave “hi” and “bye” to anyone and everyone.  Us, your teachers, the cats, even Mickey Mouse when he comes on the TV.  You’ve also learned to tell us you’re “soooo big” by throwing those little arms above your head when we ask “how big is Charlotte?”, and the grin that comes with it melts my heart.  You also love to read books.  And I mean love.  Before kids I would never have believed that an infant / toddler would actually understand anything about a book, but you do.  You love touch and feel books and have a rotation of about four that are your favorites.  You also LOVE Mr Brown Can Moo, by Dr. Seuss.  You’ll sit and go through those five books for hours; you know exactly where they are stored in the bookcase and will seek them out. 


You continue to have one of the most pleasant personalities of any baby I know, you’re just a happy, happy girl.  The only times you tend to fuss are when you’re tired, hungry, or not feeling well.  You had a couple of ear infections last month and it broke all our hearts to see you so down and out, you ran a fever for several days and just wanted to cuddle.  And, although I loved the extra snuggles, I was very happy to get my smiley girl back when you were on the mend.  You moved to a new room at school this month, now with the more mobile and bigger kids, and did great.  Your teachers were shocked at how content you are and just love you to pieces.  You cried at drop off for a few days, but acclimated quickly and are the apples of Miss Heather and Miss Denise’s eye. 


You’re on your way to walking and took your first steps just yesterday.  Or today if you count what we told your Dad.  You’re getting more stable and can go from a squatted position to standing and back again pretty well and can coast around with assistance like a pro, but you’d yet to take any unassisted steps.  Until yesterday at your Gigi’s.  All of the sudden you stood-up, took 4 steps and then did it again. Your Dad wasn’t there, so we set you up to do the same thing when we got home : )  I’m predicting that by the time I write your next letter you’ll be off and walking full speed ahead. 

Watching you grow from a baby to an infant and now moving into the toddler stage has been such a treat and every “first” amazes us just like it’s the first time we’ve ever seen anyone, anywhere crawl, take a step, put a bite of food in their mouth.  Your big little personality shines through in everything you do, from the minute you wake up when we hear you talking to your stuffed animals, to the big grins all day long, to the sweet snuggles at the end of the day. I can’t wait to be a part of so many more of your “firsts”, but hope they don’t come along too soon, because for now I love the special Mommy-moments and the fact that your Dad, your sister, and I are your first loves. 

Love,

Mom

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